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Dear Rebecca , Can you explain the importance of table manners in business? Thank you, RS Dear RS, I will do my best. In the workplace, you are judged based upon how you dress, how you treat others, and your manners.  If you have poor table manners, you limit yourself as to how far up the corporate ladder you can travel.  Some of us never entertain clients with a meal .  Although most of us share meals with our coworkers and perhaps those in higher positions than ourselves often, especially in common breakrooms.  It is crucial that our manners speak positively for us.  Our manners help define us. Just ask yourself, "Who will your boss choose for a business lunch with clients or the CEO of the company?"  Will he/she choose the person who doesn't know proper table manners or the person who does?  All etiquette is used and essential in the business world, especially table manners.  Your knowledge and implementation of proper table manners are an extensi

  Dear Rebecca, I've read your comments regarding office gift -giving online.    What guidelines apply when gifts are to a departing supervisor?    When the departure also causes the termination of others on the supervisor's team, should they also receive gifts? Thanks, Michael Dear Michael , Good question.   It is always optional to give gifts , especially in the workplace.   So, there is no firm 'guidelines' about giving to departing supervisors.   However, if it’s customary to give gifts to those who depart in your workplace, then everyone who is leaving should receive one.   It would be expected.   The gifts shouldn't be expensive and could be a farewell lunch or office party with a cake and beverages. Sincerely, Rebecca More by Rebecca How Our Actions Can Affect Our Professional Image       How to Eat Difficult Foods at a Business or Social Function Interview: business meals & handshakes