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The Importance of Table Manners in the Workplace

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Dear Rebecca,

Can you explain the importance of table manners in business?

Thank you,

RS

Dear RS,

I will do my best.

In the workplace, you are judged based upon how you dress, how you treat others, and your manners.  If you have poor table manners, you limit yourself as to how far up the corporate ladder you can travel. 

Some of us never entertain clients with a meal.  Although most of us share meals with our coworkers and perhaps those in higher positions than ourselves often, especially in common breakrooms.  It is crucial that our manners speak positively for us.  Our manners help define us.

Just ask yourself, "Who will your boss choose for a business lunch with clients or the CEO of the company?"  Will he/she choose the person who doesn't know proper table manners or the person who does? 

All etiquette is used and essential in the business world, especially table manners.  Your knowledge and implementation of proper table manners are an extension of your professionalism.  Even if you wear a $500 suit, no one will take you seriously without this skill.

Sincerely,

Rebecca

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