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No Secret Santa For Me!  Dear Polite One, I don't want to participate in the "Secret Santa" at work.  Christmas or any of the holidays mean nothing to me.  How can I state that I do not want to participate?  If I must be involved, what sorts of gifts are appropriate?   Sincerely, Scrooge Dear Scrooge, It's perfectly fine to state that you don't want to participate.  You'd have to tell the organizer of the event well before the draw.  Perhaps you could speak to this person privately, so you won't even be approached.  If you are somewhat bullied into it (hopefully not), a price guideline should be suggested to all involved.  From there, give a gender-neutral gift like a coffee shop gift card, music download code, a pair of wool gloves, or a small box of candy (anything similar).    Sincerely, The Polite One More by The Polite One     Interview: business meals & handshakes The Importance of an...

  Dear Rebecca, Does a lady stand when the president of the company comes to the table? Question on Table Manners Dear Question on Table Manners, Usually everyone rises when the president of the company arrives to the table.  If the men do, the women do.  Women are considered as part of the team in business, there is no gender bias. Sincerely, Rebecca More by Rebecca Do I tip the server at a formal function? Interview: business meals & handshakes How to Eat Difficult Foods at a Business or Social Function

  Dear Rebecca, If invited to a VIP function with sit-down table service, is it proper to leave a tip for the server/waiter for your table at the end of the night? Visitor from Las Vegas, NV Dear Visitor from Las Vegas, NV, Great question!  No, it would not be proper to do so.  The waitstaff is compensated by the hosts.   Sincerely, Rebecca More by Rebecca Interview: business meals & handshakes The Importance of an Elevator Speech Time to Polish Our Professional Presence