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Do I tip the server at a formal function?

formal dinner; business dinner; formal function 

Dear Rebecca,

If invited to a VIP function with sit-down table service, is it proper to leave a tip for the server/waiter for your table at the end of the night?

Visitor from Las Vegas, NV

Dear Visitor from Las Vegas, NV,

Great question!  No, it would not be proper to do so.  The waitstaff is compensated by the hosts.  

Sincerely,

Rebecca

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